a new year. and with each year that passes you realize that you should be getting older and wiser.
i have realized that i am now old enough to make the decision about the relationship i want to have with different people. i also realize that everything can not be perfect - if it were, it wouldn't be life. i realize that sometimes we are selfish and we look at things from only our point of view - if it is something that makes us sad, we cry and if it is something that is happy we laugh. i realize that we do not really look to see if we are hurting the person in front of us by laughing or crying at that point. i realize that we shouldn't always care - sometimes maybe but not always. i realize that just setting a goal is easy but working on it is a pain in the butt. i realize that someone who could mean the whole world to you - could be nothing but an asshole to someone else and vice versa. i realize that saving money is so important it is unbelievable. having said that, i realize that the most difficult thing to do in this world is save money. i realize that people who say 'love your body the way it is and embrace your curves' are usually very skinny famous people who have the best food, fitness trainers and medical facilities to themselves. i realize that loosing weight should be something that makes you happy and will actually make you feel better about yourself - you do not need to do it for anybody else.
i realize now that i do not want the page three lifestyle that everybody assumed and pictured
me living once i am married. i realize that i was the one who lead them to believe that because i believed it myself. i realize that everything you are is driven by your religious and cultural beliefs. i have realized that those people who try to give you lectures about living a content life and about how hard work will pay off and it is easy to sit and make random decisions about your life act upon them without thinking them through properly are usually those who have heavy bank accounts and have not had to work for anything in thier life. i have realized that i actaully pity those who have grown up too fast.
realization. once you know what you actually know, you can make your resolutions as to what you would like to change. having said that i bet my resolutions will have nothing to do with what i have realized.
happy 2009 people.
i have realized that i am now old enough to make the decision about the relationship i want to have with different people. i also realize that everything can not be perfect - if it were, it wouldn't be life. i realize that sometimes we are selfish and we look at things from only our point of view - if it is something that makes us sad, we cry and if it is something that is happy we laugh. i realize that we do not really look to see if we are hurting the person in front of us by laughing or crying at that point. i realize that we shouldn't always care - sometimes maybe but not always. i realize that just setting a goal is easy but working on it is a pain in the butt. i realize that someone who could mean the whole world to you - could be nothing but an asshole to someone else and vice versa. i realize that saving money is so important it is unbelievable. having said that, i realize that the most difficult thing to do in this world is save money. i realize that people who say 'love your body the way it is and embrace your curves' are usually very skinny famous people who have the best food, fitness trainers and medical facilities to themselves. i realize that loosing weight should be something that makes you happy and will actually make you feel better about yourself - you do not need to do it for anybody else.
i realize now that i do not want the page three lifestyle that everybody assumed and pictured
me living once i am married. i realize that i was the one who lead them to believe that because i believed it myself. i realize that everything you are is driven by your religious and cultural beliefs. i have realized that those people who try to give you lectures about living a content life and about how hard work will pay off and it is easy to sit and make random decisions about your life act upon them without thinking them through properly are usually those who have heavy bank accounts and have not had to work for anything in thier life. i have realized that i actaully pity those who have grown up too fast.realization. once you know what you actually know, you can make your resolutions as to what you would like to change. having said that i bet my resolutions will have nothing to do with what i have realized.
happy 2009 people.
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Every true, eternal problem is an equally true, eternal fault; every answer an atonement, every realisation an improvement.
I am not a stalker, i just clicked the next tab on my own blog and was diverted to yours. Am an avid blogger.
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nami, i dreamt about you last night. you were so damn sexy coz of full training for your marathon. hahaha... guess i really have special power dreaming things which i am just about to see.
happy new year sweetie! hope everything's fine.
so this is what you do at work!
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